He said he loved me too, but never bothered to call me afterward. Staying in also makes for easy sex. Ask yourself how much you know about his friends and personal life. Because he doesn’t want you to think he wants a relationship, he’ll probably keep you away from his friends. It’s hard, but sometimes you have to admit the truth. Please help us continue to provide you with our trusted how-to guides and videos for free by whitelisting wikiHow on your ad blocker. What should I do if someone is using me only for sex? Like us on Facebook Twitter Pinterest and we promise, we’ll be your lucky charm to a beautiful love life. Of course, he kisses you romantically and sensually when you two are in the bedroom. #15 You don’t feel like he actually cares about you. #6 Doesn’t invite you out. It hurts your feelings and ego. If he doesn't share a lot with you, it could mean he's only interested in you for sex. Just make sure to communicate your concerns so you can get to the bottom of it and hear what he has to say. I was in love with a guy for two years who wanted nothing more than to be friends with me. Even if you complain about this, he could distract you by saying something about how all he wants to do is curl up with you. The oldest trick in the book. How do I know if someone is using me for sex if they just call me and want to get physical? If he doesn’t want to get to know you, he’s not interested in being with you. Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. If he starts with the, “I’m not sure exactly what I want,” that’s a lie. There's no way anyone else can answer that question for you, except maybe your boyfriend. We accept the love we deserve – Why aren’t you worthy? #9 He never pays. Like us on Facebook Twitter Pinterest and we promise, we’ll be your lucky charm to a beautiful love life. The signs of him using me where so clear, but I was so into him I chose to ignore them. [Read: 10 booty call moves that may look like true love]. Did he ever pay for anything? For more ways to tell if he's using you, like looking at who he's texting and talking to on social media, scroll down! {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/4\/4a\/Tell-when-a-Guy-Is-Using-You-for-Sex-Step-1-Version-2.jpg\/v4-460px-Tell-when-a-Guy-Is-Using-You-for-Sex-Step-1-Version-2.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/4\/4a\/Tell-when-a-Guy-Is-Using-You-for-Sex-Step-1-Version-2.jpg\/aid529925-v4-728px-Tell-when-a-Guy-Is-Using-You-for-Sex-Step-1-Version-2.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":"728","bigHeight":"546","licensing":"

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